The book “Become more Social, Assertive and Outgoing” is about a journey in personal transformation to become more social and be able to express yourself.
This book is for you if you want to naturally become more social, assertive and outgoing without having to change a lot. You will learn Energy boosting lifestyle habits and productivity tips to help you. A simple way to know if this book is for you is to imagine how you feel whenever you are in an escalator with strangers. If you feel awkward and want to rush out as soon as you reach your floor but want to become more comfortable in all types of situations, this book is for you.
In this book you will learn:
– The numerous benefits of becoming more social and making friends
– Common pitfalls in the path of personal development
– A step by step approach to decide to change and make it sustainable
– Stories to inspire you to take the leap
– Importance of working on your character instead of trying quick fixes and shortcuts
– List of values such as courage and vision to empower yourself for long term change
– How to implement habits to make you more energetic and social
– Habits that will help you be more motivated instead of relying on chance
– The importance of goal setting to commit your intentions to success
– The best lifestyle habits for maximum energy so that you are consistent in your quest to become more social
– Productivity techniques enabling you to practice being yourself and talking to people naturally without having to allocate additional time
– How to reach mastery efficiently in this journey
– Fears and limiting beliefs busting strategies to make them something of the past
– How to practically get out of your Ego and make yourself more comfortable in social situations
– The importance of focusing on fundamentals such as Body Posture, Eye Contact and Voice
– improvisation and storytelling techniques so that you always have something to say
– The importance of being assertive and how to enforce WIN WIN situations
– A step by a step approach to initiate conversation with people with examples
– Tips to have stimulating conversations.
In this book, I present a framework which will enable you to work on your character level so that the change you make can be used everywhere else in your life such as your professional life. Moreover, you will learn a simple yet effective habit you can implement today that dramatically boosts your self confidence and self esteem.
Additionally, you will also learn a step by step practicable guide to be comfortable being yourself in social situations with plenty of strangers. Instead of thinking how people are judging you, you will prefer focus in appreciating the present moment, initiating conversations and making new friends. You will learn how to deal with several fears such as fear of embarrassment and key principles important for self actualisation.
Why read this book?
This book illustrates my personal journey as an ordinary person and the struggles I went through to become a social person from shy and reserved. I knew I had to change because of my passive behaviour which people usually took advantage of. This book is concise yet contains plenty of useful elements in your quest to become more social, assertive and outgoing.
