Pages: 380
At the age of four, a little girl stands on a cold, windy railroad platform in Wichita, Kansas to watch the train take her mother away. For the rest of her life, her mother will be only an occasional and troubled visitor.
Linda Joy Myers’s compassionate, gripping, and soul-searching memoir tells the story of three generations of daughters who long for their absent mothers, yet unwittingly recreate a pattern that she was determined to break. Accompany Linda as she uncovers family secrets, finds solace in music, and begins her healing journey. Learn how she transcends the prison of childhood to discover light in the darkness of strife, abuse, and undiagnosed mental illness.
Don’t Call Me Mother was originally published in 2005. This revised edition includes a new introduction and afterword, with new insights about memoir writing. It’s an inspiring chronicle of perseverance, healing, and the transformative power of forgiveness.
“In this new edition of her memoir, Linda Joy Myers illustrates just how powerful the combination of memory confronted, forgiveness offered, and new love expressed, can be. What I admire most about this book is the way the author takes you to her most sustaining love—the prairie land of the Midwest—and concludes her story as a return to that place where forgiveness becomes ‘a feather on my heart, as natural as the plains wind.’”
—Shirley Showalter, former president of Goshen College, author of the blog I Have a Story
“Don’t Call Me Mother takes you deep inside the mind of a young girl who has been spurned by that most important person in her life, her own mother. Without a guide to help her develop into a woman, Linda Joy is forced into a vulnerable, innovative search for dignity and survival that is at the heart of every hero’s tale.”
—Jerry Waxler, M.S., founder of the Memory Writers Network, author of Memoir Revolution and Four Elements for Writers
“Myers’s new afterword pulls back the veil and lays bare the actual healing power of memoir. Poignant, visceral, and triumphant, this new section left me shaken and stunned with its raw beauty. As a reader, I felt I was witnessing transformation.”
—Kathleen Adams, LPC, author of Journal to the Self and Scribing the Soul, Director of the Center for Journal Therapy and the Therapeutic Writing Institute
